No man is an island. This is a famous line that i learn in my primary school. I've going through a lot these days. There were time when you feel all alone and by yourself. You think that you need to reset your life in order to get it back on track. I am feeling that way because there are things that lead me astray from my objectives, my mission and vision. In life you will need to struggle in order to get it or to achieve success. Such as in your studies, your business, your relationship with your spouse and many other more. Not to forget our relationship with our friends.
Friends are the second most influencing individual in our life. I am sure that all of you readers agreed with me on this. This is because we spend most of our times with them. Even family members does not get the opportunity spending time together like them. As a result we tend to behave and follow what friends shown to us in the aspect of attitude, behavior, and many more. For example, spending time more with friends that always strive for perfection will eventually makes you also wants to being perfect in anything. Mingle with those who are delinquents will eventually makes you a delinquents also.
Enough with the introduction. I am sure you all will get the same introduction in books about self motivation at the bookstore..hehe. I have friends. Not that many, but i love making new friends. It lets you to know many things in life. If you are lucky, it unlocks you to an opportunity that will helps you in improving yourself and people surrounding you. Trust me, because i have been in that situation and it let me do something that helps me in a way.
There were times when to much spending time with your friends will lead you astray. I am not saying that making friends is bad and staying in touch also bad for you. I am just saying that you need to put a barrier that makes you aware and always on guard of things that give negative influences on you. Worst, to your friends. For me i do not want to give bad influences to my friends. Especially to those who actually good in person. Good in attitude, good in behavior. If i am giving bad influences to them, it is better for me to walk away. It may be hard, and maybe this action is not acceptable by many people. If you think so, feel free to give your opinion. I think this is all the time that i have. In the upcoming days, i think i will write more because i found that writing is the best way for me to express my feelings. Stay strong and healthy guys!hehe..
