Tuesday, 6 May 2014

SOCIAL NETWORK AND THEIR EFFECTS TO ME

Example of social network.

Everyday the world has become more and more advance in every field that you can come out with. But the most stand out among them all are the information technology. Advancement in this field has lead to making jobs and works become more easier, faster and more organize. In parallel with it, it is also the birth of social networking where people can interact and get to know each other. Internet has enable us to communicate with others 10 000 miles away. Does it not amaze you enough?

As the world become modern, and life is getting more easier, therefore social life also become easier. Social networking has become a part of everyone in their life. Out of 10 people, 9 of them has Facebook account. Trust me. Social network has its own impact to every one of us. The effect will vary with the individuals. Some people are good in managing their life, thus they are not easily distracted by this virtual social life. But there are some others that is making their life much more worse with this social network. Why must i talk about the effect of social network on other person instead i can be one of the person who being affected by social network. What i am trying to say is what is the effect of social network to me.

First, it lets me connect with my friends. I am amaze that when the first time i use Facebook, i was asked to be friend from a very long lost colleague of mine. That is the beauty that i see about Facebook. Furthermore you can get to know the person better by the pictures or status that they share on the net. As i start using Facebook, i eventually feels that there are some people out there are having a bad time when comes the time when you feel down with your life. Thus i would like to inspire people out there with my status. I do not want other feel bad with their life, instead they should cherish their life to the fullest.

There are time where you spend more time on the computer. Being unproductive is a very waste of time. God has given you time where you should use it to become a better individuals. Not being a lazy bum. It also happens to me. Sometime when you update your status you are expecting your friends to like it or to comment on it. This act will surely cost you. Do not let the Facebook control you. We are human thus we are the one who are controlling them. I seldom spend more time on social network because i don't have many friends, thus i use social network as a medium for me to express myself and maybe inspire other to become a better person.
Artist illustration on social network.

Spending time the social network will get you nowhere. Are you certain and sure that your friends in the social network will help you in time in need? Are you sure that they are wanting to be your friend sincerely? There are people where they are proud with their many friends on social network. Hello, what there is to be proud of? I bet that there are only a few that you really know who they are. Others are just as an accessories in their social network. Unlike me, i treasure my friends dearly. I do not know what will happen to me if they are gone. I prefer getting to the person in person which we can laugh together, walk together, share our emotion and many more. There are saying friendship is like a book, it only take a minute to burn but take lots of time to write the story.

In real life, i am always searching what to add in my life. Whether it be friends, experience, social life.I would like all this to stay out from the virtual life of the social network. If i had to run, i will run. If i had to jump, i will jump and if i had to confront it, i will. That is my motto. I shall not let social network becoming the wall between me trying to enjoy my life to the fullest. My advice before i end this entry, get out there and look people on the eyes, not your smartphone. Let them know that you exist in real not virtually. I am human, and i am proud being a human...

LOVE....


My love, there's only you in my life, the only thing that's right...
My first love, your're every breath that i take, you're every step that i make...
And I...I want to share all my love with you, no one else will do...
And your eyes, your eyes, your eyes,
They tell me how much you care..
Ooh yes, you will always be, my endless love...


What a wonderful song sang by our beloved Lionel Richie and Diana Ross. The lyrics had touched me deep inside. No words can describe what am i feeling while listening to this song. Love. Love is a strong word. People nowadays have their own perspective about love. Some people said that love is blind. While others said true love lies on the eyes of the beholder. They even said that love can make you crazy. This entry is not just only a writing, but also an expression of my perspective on love itself.

What is love actually? Love is an intense feeling of deep affection to someone. Sometime it makes you wonder what kind of feeling that you are having. Living in this world alone is just the same as the earth without its mesmerizing nature. God have created us pair by pair. Same goes to human, male and female. We completed each other. Furthermore we needed each other in order to enjoy and cherish our lives together.


As day by day gone, I learnt that there were many things that we need to learn in order to know what was the meaning of going through your life. There are time we are looking for something. The one thing that make you complete. Some people find it in the eyes of their lovers, while others find it in the face of their children. The one thing that we all are searching for is love. Sometimes we find it in an unexpected ways and places. At the end of the day as you find it, you will be flying without wings, pure joy and happiness.

We all have a dream. Pursuing to the destination where we accomplish what we ever dream off. As fairy tales have their own happy endings, why not we also have our own happy ending. As love can come in many form. It may be in the form of loving your love one, or maybe loving your pet. Treasure it as it may be useful for you in the future. Love always bring joy in your life, but sometime it may cause you not thinking straight.